We had a party, (and wondered where Lis was)…half the invitees didn’t make it, but the half that did had a good time, as did we. Once you change your own expectation of an event, however it unfolds, works beautifully. I had a chance to talk to everyone, enjoy the company, not feel too busy to do so. It’s not just rationalizing, it’s making the best of the reality. I danced, laughed, had Cosmos, enjoyed our guests = Good Time.